I've had my X5 for several months now, but haven't got the bluetooth to work.
The manual says to press the talking head button on the center console, but mine is on my steering wheel. I've read online that the one on the steering wheel is not the same.
When I turn on the ignition key my phone finds the car's bluetooth, and can connect for a few seconds before disconnecting, as shown in this screenshot:

It nevers shows 'Bluetooth pairing' on the car's display.
What am I supposed to do, if the talking head button seems to be the wrong one?
Or how do I clear the previously connected devices?
I have a BMW phone in between the seats.
This is my interior (not my picture)

Here's some close ups I took:
Talking head is on the bottom, left row of buttons


Thanks,
Glenn